3 Powerful NLP Benefits You Need To Know About

March 13, 2011 by Orlando Florida Magazine  
Filed under In the News

Among other reasons, including effectiveness, NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) is popular with millions of people because with concerted effort you can realize positive outcomes in a relatively short time period. These specialized techniques are not hard to pick-up, and they can be done so quickly and implemented easily. It’s simply, really, because the more you practice the new NLP skill, the better the outcome will be. We’ll now share a couple of NLP benefits that you can realize in your own life through persistence and dedication.

There’s a concept in NLP, congruency, and it is a powerful idea and phenomenon that can be effective. The idea behind this concept is that the highest performing people are consistent in their lives with their desires and goals – they are congruent. You need to avoid being ambiguous about your goals; everything about you must spell out what it is you want to do. The inconsistent person belies the truth; they will have some aspects of their behavior or speech or thought that is not aligned with their stated goals. In order to be congruent, it’s necessary to know what it is you value, and to know what your values are. It is more of a matter of degree because it could be the rare person who is totally and completely congruent. The important take-away is to always try to learn more about yourself, and this will help you do that.

If better communication skills is desirable, then you can employ the famous NLP strategy called, mirroring. All you do is actually mirror the other person you’re talking with, and you’ll use the same type of stance, body movements, and hand gestures but of course each situation is different so you need to assess it as you go. So, pay close attention to the hand gestures and body shifts and movements when you’re speaking with someone. Successful mirroring works on the unconscious mind, and the other person will just naturally feel more relaxed and positive about you and what you’re saying, generally speaking. You do, however, need to be gentle and unassuming about it, not obvious because people will generally notice it and the reaction will be negative. You can use it very unobtrusively to build up a rapport with strangers, or with those you normally don’t speak with on a frequent basis.

Another concept and technique with Neuro Linguistic Programming is changing the influential pictures in your mind so they can help you achieve more of what you want in your life. One area this can help in, out of very many, is in the case of your job requiring you to give talks, yet you really are nervous to get up in front of others and speak. What usually happens? Well, most if not everyone will see themselves being nervous while speaking. The thing you have to do is change the picture to one in which you’re self-assured and comfortable. Place the “new” confident image as a small circle inside the old image that is the way you always were, until now. Now replace the old with the new, and you do that by slowly watching the new one get bigger and bigger until it blocks out the old image and only the new is left standing. These NLP techniques will work, but it’s your responsibility to do it, to practice them until you see good stuff happening.

These and other NLP techniques have been proven to be effective, and you can effect positive changes in many areas such as work, home, relationships, etc. You are the most important part of the success equation because your success depends on your willingness to practice the techniques. You can easily see how you can apply NLP to just about any area of your life, and with practice your life can become totally different.

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